Contents

Foreword

Acknowledgements

Introduction: The Number One Thing I Learned After My Divorce

 1 The Definition of Divorce

 2 Trying to Move Rainbows (My Story)

 3 The Hardest Part About Getting Divorced

 4 The Crap Meter

 5 Betrayal: Surviving An Affair

 6 Fight Or Flight

 7 Getting to Indifference

 8 Being Rejuvenated – Beyond Your Comfort Zone
     There Is No Mattress

 9 When You’ve Gone Full Circle

10 The Ideal Divorce: Is it an Oxymoron?

11 A New First Time for Everything

12 THE GENERAL RULES
     What Every Re-entry Dater Should Know

13 Relationship Retardation
     How We Sabotage Our Relationships

14 Sex Economics 101: The Pig Theory

15 101 Things I Learned After My Divorce
     (Tomi’s List)

Epilogue

About the Author